Friday, December 19, 2025

Finding Christmas

For lots of reasons this year I am not in the Christmas spirit.
I am decorated and I had my wonderful women's group over this week.
The cards are in the mail and the gifts are wrapped. 
I have watched all of my favorite Christmas movies.
I have baked cookies,fudge,and cranberry bread. That I made into bread pudding and wow was it good!!! Natashaskitchen.com
We even met family at a festive resturant for lunch yesterday. 
We are celebrating Christmas day with our daughter, son-in-law, and grand. But I still am looking forward to it being over. I really dislike feeling like this way.
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It is raining buckets and warm-ish but back to freezing weather tonight. So we will need ice skates soon. 
I wish you all the Christmas spirit♡

16 comments:

Saundra said...

I can recall my mother saying she wasn't in the Christmas spirit and wasn't going to decorate. This was a few years before she passed and I was surprises. HA! Fast forward several years now and I'm feeling exactly the same way. Since I go visit my son and family there's no reason for me to drag out items from the attic to decorate since I'd just have to drag them back. So I am now my mother, lol.

The Happy Whisk said...

I'm sorry that you feel that way. Hoping you have fun time, just the same. And if I could, I'd reach into the screen for some of that cranberry pudding. Oh my yum.

Mari said...

Rain doesn't help a person feel Christmasy! I hope your Christmas spirit comes back quickly!

Chatty Crone said...

I wish you the Christmas Spirit too!

Pam said...

I understand that! I rarely have the Christmas Spirit these days. Praying for the Peace of Christmas for you.

Grace & Peace,
Pam

Marie Smith said...

I can relate to how you feel as I have had that feeling on a few occasions. I hope the feeling passes. Take care.

Maureen said...

I hope those “ for lots of reasons” you mentioned in your first sentence resolve for you in time. Christmas can be a lot when other things are also pressing down on you.

Rugs and Pugs said...

Beautiful sunrise (?) picture.
Even with little to no Christmas spirit, I hope you will enjoy being with family.

Nancy said...

For years we build our collections, joy coming from the looks and feel of Christmas...but at some point we pare down, simplify, turn to Nature ... the real things. Sit quietly, a single candle lit, and in the silence you will hear.💚❤️🫖

Dicky Bird said...

I'm with you. I had a difficult 2025 - health diagnosis, broken bones, etc. I'm trying to do same things you're doing, cookies, movies, etc. I'm blue because I can't do all the things I used to be able to do.

Prims By The Water said...

So sorry you lost the Christmas spirit. I too am not really enjoying myself now that my mom is here. Am making the best of it though on my end too as I know she will not be here forever. Patience is a word I keep reminding myself of lately. Hope you do enjoy time with your family. Janice

Debbie said...

i wonder why you are feeling this way?? all of the wonderful things you have done, should have brought you the christmas spirit!! you are a lovely person, with such great spirit...and you do so many things. maybe because your "general" routine is different?? i find i need my routine to feel "right"!! i hope you have a nice day and that when you look back on the day, you are able to smile!! that is one gorgeous sunset you captured!!

TheCrankyCrow said...

Awww....I'm sorry you're feeling that way my friend. I can so definitely relate. Your "many reasons" may be different than my "many reasons" but I understand. It's been that way for me for years now. I keep thinking that pulling out my decorations, listening to Christmas music, watching the old movies, baking, etc. will stir up some of the spirit...mostly to no avail. Like Saundra, I used to despair when my mother said she had no Christmas spirit. I just couldn't understand. Now I do.

Granny Marigold said...

I enjoy the lead-up to Christmas more than the day itself. I hope all goes well for your celebration.
You've given me a good idea. I will make bread pudding with my failed Christmas Stollen 🎄

Beatrice P. Boyd said...

Know that you are not alone in your feelings, Cathy, as many others are similarly affected including myself. My mother passed away a few days before Christmas years ago, but I still remember the sadness of that holiday. That sadness still lingers every holiday season, but memories of happier times lift my spirits. You obviously have had many joyful moments and ones yet to come, so be kind to yourself, relax and enjoy the time with family and friends.

Jeanie said...

I'm reading backwards. But I will say that you are far from alone. That lead up is exhausting -- even when it is fun, even when it is exactly what you want to do. There's a lot of stress at this time, lots of expectations (especially the ones we put on ourselves.) I hope you had a lovely, gentle day and that during these days - before all the decorations come down -- you can sit quietly and just savor them, the lights, the music, the quiet. Belated Merry and Onward!